• Your wants
• Your wishes
• Your desires
• Your aspirations
• Your preferences
are ALWAYS secondary.
What comes first?
Your needs.
Consciously, you have all these wants.
But your unconscious mind is in control.
You might be thinking:
"But I really really really want this!" 🙏
If your unconscious could speak, it would say:
"I don't give a damn about what you want. 🙅♂️We NEED to first take care of .... (fill in your need) and THEN we can focus on all these "extras" that are not really necessary for you!"
Let me illustrate the point:
CLIENT A: Young and aspiring crypto trader.
CLIENT A (consciously):💰
He wanted to be consistently profitable and enjoy his profits outside of trading.
CLIENT A (unconsciously):🤬
He kept making sh*tloads of money and then proceeded to lose almost all of it. Always feeling shame and disappointment in himself.
UNCONSCIOUS NEED:
Deal with a shame and disappointment he experienced when he was a teenager and his parents divorced.
The shame and disappointment he experienced in his trading had nothing to do with trading.
After we've resolved it, he finds himself making money consistently, enjoying his life with no shame and thinking about new projects he could invest himself into.
Why?
The need is fulfilled.
Now it's time for what he wants.
CLIENT B: SEO specialist in her mid 30s.
CLIENT B (consciously):🌈
She's had everything she ever wanted - the family, the work, the income, the friends, and all she wanted is to enjoy what she have, be fully in the present moment.
CLIENT B (unconsciously):😱
Her mind was constantly stressing her with different "regrets/worries" about times from her past or possible future.
UNCONSCIOUS NEED:
Deal with guilt and fear of not being good enough that was created by her overly critical mother since she was a child until she left home (and during all the subsequent visits of her famiy).
After we've resolved it, she is enjoying what she has.
She contacted me yesterday just to share that everything in her life is exactly like she wanted. 🎉
Why?
The need is fulfilled.
Now it's time for what she wants.
CLIENT C: The director of multiple charities.
CLIENT C (consciously):💕
He wished to be in a quality personal relationship based on mutual respect, understanding and love.
CLIENT C (unconsciously):💔
He went from one relationship to another.
In some, he was cherished and admired, but he was uncomfortable with it, so he broke them off.
In some, he was not noticed by his partner, he didn't like it, so he broke them off.
UNCONSCIOUS NEED:
Deal with abandonment he experienced when he was a newborn. (his parents left him unnoticed for prolonged periods of time)
All his life trying to fix this👆, but with wrong people.
After we've resolved it, he finds himself in the relationship he always wanted.
Why?
The need is fulfilled.
Now it's time for what he wants.
You might think you're different.
But you're not.
Your unconscious mind is in control.
You go through life and your unconscious is searching for the right opportunities to "fulfill your needs".
Yes, those needs sometimes suck.
But they are necessary for you to live the life you've always wanted.
This is what I know from experience:
• You know exactly what you want.
• You know the life you want and deserve.
• You can visualize it and step into your ideal version.
That's a necessary first step towards it.
But, the step #2 is to take care of your needs.
Your REAL needs.
You don't need to consciously know what they are.
Your unconscious knows already.
You just need to find someone who can talk with your unconscious.
Someone who can assist you to fulfill your needs.
Someone like me.
If you're ready to stop feeling stuck...
If you're ready to go for what you want...
If you're done with hoping and dreaming, but never arriving...
I'm here for you.
This is what I do with my clients in the first month of my coaching.
You're no more than 30 days away from the life YOU WANT.
You're no more than 30 days away from the life YOU DESERVE.
Contact me now and let's start together.
Let me guide you to the place where you belong.
