That's what I always ask everyone.
Why such a question?
It makes it easy to distill your core value.
I've heard many things over the years:
My grandma of 85 told me:
"Let go of what was, it doesn't matter anymore."
My best friend celebrating 28 said:
"Follow your passion, it will lead you where you need to go."
One of my friends celebrated 52:
"Presence is the most important thing there is."
I'm still 3 days away from m birthday...
But looking back to my life, I can clearly see the biggest lesson learned.
Ready?
Here it is:
"Being honest is not only a virtue, it's essential."
Being dishonest with others and (especially) with myself brought me the most suffering in my life.
Honesty, on the other hand, is not only a door opener. Honesty is a heart opener.
If you wear your heart on your sleeve, it inspires others to be honest.
It inspires them to be authentic.
I've been on Twitter/X for 7 months now.
All this time I've been wondering:
What is my 1 message I want to share with others?
What is the one thing I want to repeat over and over and over?
First, it was this:
Success in trading is all about you, the trader.
Then, it was this:
If you want to change, use your whole mind, not just your conscious mind.
Then, it transfomed:
Hypnotic coaching is more effective than "regular" coaching, because we use your whole mind.
All these messages are true.
All are important.
But they are not the most important.
Yesterday, I woke up in the middle of the night and had a transformative experience that lasted for 3 hours.
I felt a wave of inspiration flowing through me.
It was all about one single thing, shown in 100s of different ways:
"Being honest is not only a virtue, it's essential."
I've decided to change my X account to reflect this change:
• I've already changed my BIO
• I'll change my banner
• I'll change my pinned tweet
• I'll change my Twitter handle
• I'll change my picture to my current picture
Here's the truth:
Nobody knows how much time we have.
I am not afraid of death.
What I am afraid is:
• Leaving this life with unfinished business.
• Not living my life authentically.
• Not expressing my real truth.
I'm changing the message I want to express to the world.
I'll be using this account as a vehicle: https://twitter.com/DROPCoachMat
If it means I'll lose some of my followers, so be it.
But something tells me that this will attract much more people of my "blood type" to me.
I can't wait to meet you all.
X, get ready for the ride.
Here comes the honesty.
